Your Guide to Sexting

One of the hottest trends in connecting with your special someone is sexting. Sexting is the act of sending sexy words or pictures to a partner. With the amazing quality of picture and video we have on our phones, this is now the best time to combine sex and technology. This is like phone sex 2.0. Never let distance be a problem with you and your partner again. You two can now be connected with literally a push of a button. While this sounds pretty simple and straightforward, there are a few guidelines to make sure you abide by that can make your sexting experience easy.

Turn Sweetest Day Into Sweetest Night

Do you know what is happening October 19, 2013? It’s Sweetest Day! What’s that? You’ve never heard of it? Being from the Mitten state, this is a holiday that I grew up with. It is a Midwest construct which involves giving your ‘sweetie’ something sweet to show that you care. Think Valentine’s day, but only in the Fall. This isn’t a national holiday, which often makes people call it a ‘Hallmark Holiday.’ This is insinuating that it was created by the card company to make you buy their goods, but it allegedly originated from a Cleveland candy company employee. According the history on Hallmark’s website, Sweetest Day was imagined by Herbert Birch Kingston in 1922. He wanted to bring happiness to those people who were often forgotten such as orphans and people confined to their homes. 

Now fast forward to present day, Hallmark, as well as many other candy, card, and gift companies, are on board with this holiday which is celebrated every third Saturday in October. People shower their friends, family, and loved ones with gifts such as chocolates, cards, and flowers, but I want to challenge to you add a little something to this holiday. Sweeten the deal, if you will. If you’re looking for something extra special to give your sweet one, give them the gift of sex. I’m calling this Sweetest Night. 

Introducing Sex Toys – The Vibrator

I’d like to continue our introduction to sex toys with something very basic, a vibrator. What’s interesting about the vibrator is that it has evolved since the earlier phallic shaped “massagers” most of us have seen. Vibrators now come in all sorts of shapes, configurations and styles. They also come in a variety of materials like silicone, metal, glass and even ceramic. So without further ado… Relationship, meet the vibrator.

Why a Vibrator?

Adding vibration can be stimulating for both partners. A vibrator can be used during foreplay to tease over the top of clothes or along bare skin, around nipples, on the clitoris or in the vagina. You can use it in front of your partner, allowing them to watch you as you please yourself. A little seductive voyeurism! It also gives you a chance to show your partner where you really like to be touched. Your partner can use it on you, adding to caresses and touches with the purring of the vibrator. You can use it to enhance oral sex. It can also be used during sex to increase stimulation, help to find that elusive peak or help to continue when one partner is spent but would like to continue to please their partner. The vibrator is not for the female body alone, men can use vibrators too. It can be pressed against the nipples, penis, balls, perineum and anus to add more stimulation. Experiment all over. You might find a spot that works wonders for you.