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Tuesday, October 31, 2017

5 Sexy Spooky Role-Plays for Halloween


Today is Halloween and you know what that means. It’s costume time! Costumes don’t have to be reserved for the 31st though. Try bringing one into the bedroom for some role-playing! The grown-up version of playing pretend, role-play is a great way to test out a power dynamic, explore kinks, or just pretend to be someone (or something) else! You can play out fantasies by using props and costumes, or with nothing but the most powerful sexual organ you’ve got, your brain. Here’s a list of bone(r)-chilling role plays to spice up your sex life this spooky season!

A Vampire

Although plastic vampire teeth have no business around anyone’s genitals, rumor has it vampires are great at sucking things. What a perfect excuse for endless neck kisses. Trailing sharp claws over someone’s skin has never been so sexy, but leave the stakes to the real bloodsuckers.

A Dominatrix

If you’ve ever imagined yourself as a leather-clad dom, but have always been too nervous that you wouldn’t fit the part, now is your chance. Domming someone can be nerve-wracking and vulnerable, and one way to make it easier is to turn it into a role-play in which you pretend to be a formidable and unforgiving mistress or master. Accessories like a whip, riding crop, or wrist and ankle cuffs will help you get in the mood to drip hot wax all over your sub’s body, or perhaps gag their mouth so they can’t say a peep when you paddle their rear end.

A Kitten

If you reside on the other end of the domination/submission spectrum as a SUB, perhaps a spooky little black kitten would be more up your alley. Kitten-play celebrates innocence, gentleness, and care taking, so if you’re into being loved and cherished, put some sweet little ears on your head, maybe try out sporting a swishy tail, or slip a collar and leash around your neck. Purr.

A Trick or Treat Candy Basket

You know those gag gift candy thongs, underwear, and bras? Now is the perfect time to finally have the excuse to bring those suckers out. All dolled up, you’d be the perfect treat for your partner. Kick up the sweetness by drizzling some flavored lube over your most delicious parts too!

A Sorcerer, Witch, or Wizard

Enchant your partner by casting a spell on them to make them fall in love with you, or for something a little kinkier, make them do your bidding. Lure them to the bedroom with a siren song, or use your Magic Wand to bewitch them into pleasure. 

Now, if you’ve never done this before, perhaps it’s best not to surprise your lover by suddenly appearing in nothing but kitten ears and candy nipple-tassels. Instead, talk about it beforehand, establishing that whatever costume you choose is something you both want. Then you can decide whether a surprise or a thoroughly planned-out night is right for you. Whatever you choose, role-play is a great way to explore sex in new way. Have a Happy Halloween!

By: Sammi
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