Are you in a sex position rut? Why not try a woman on top
position? Roles are completely reversed in this configuration. This is a great
way to be in charge of the action and still feel close with your partner. Being
on top allows you to set whatever pace you like and how much penetration you
want to receive. It is also makes it easier for you to try climax because you
can adjust your body to receive better clitoral stimulation. And besides
increasing your chances of orgasm, your partner loves to see you on top. Many
people enjoy watching their partner take control and the front row view of
breasts isn’t bad either. Don’t worry about any imperfections you think you may
have. The last thing your partner is going to notice is that spot you missed
shaving or whether or not you’re bloated from dinner, trust me. So relax, jump
in the saddle and ride ‘em with these positions!
Standard Woman on Top
This is a great starting point for those who are not
familiar with this position. Suddenly jumping on your partner can seem like a
daunting task, but it doesn’t have to be an awkward endeavor. You can ease into
the position quite smoothly if you are already part way there. You can be laying
side by side with your partner kissing and then you can move yourself so that
you’re laying on top of them. Slide your body down theirs until you’re in the
right spot. You can use an arm to push yourself up and lean your body forward
so you can use your other hand to guide them into you. Once they are inside of
you, you can continue to lay on them and make subtle hip movements or you can
push yourself up to a seated position and make more exaggerated hip movements.
What makes this such a great position is the freedom of
motion that you and your partner have. While on top you are able to touch your
breasts, massage your partner, kiss them, or stimulate your clitoris. And your
partner is free to hold onto your hips while you’re riding them, touch your
breasts, kiss your torso, or even stimulate your clitoris.
Try some of these variations
Lotus
Have your partner sit in a comfortable cross-legged
position. If this is not accessible for them they can put their feet together
with wide knees or simply sit with their legs in a V shape. While facing your
partner, mount them so that your bodies are almost flush together. Embrace each
other, kiss, and tilt your pelvis back and forth.
First Chair
Have your partner sit in an armless chair and then mount
them. Make sure the chair isn’t too high for your feet to touch the ground. You
can use the floor to control the depth on your partner and create the right
angle for great clitoral stimulation.
The Frog
In this position your partner is laying down flat and you
mount them while keeping your knees bent and close to your chest. You can use
your arms and thighs to bounce yourself up and down on them. Bonus for your
partner, they get to watch your breasts move in time to your sexy motions.
The Slide
Have your partner sit on the couch or in an oversized chair
and mount them with your knees bent. Slowly lower yourself backwards on your
partner’s legs to the floor and use it to slide yourself against them. Because
you are so open, this position can satisfy your inner wanton desires by giving
your partner a visual feast of watching them go in and out of you.
By Megan Stubbs
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