Don’t worry, summer isn’t over yet! You still have plenty of
time to keep it sizzling.
Go Skinny Dipping
Sure it sounds like something you may have done in high
school, but I assure you, the level of fun and naughtiness doesn’t diminish
with age. There is something inherently sexy about being fully naked and
immersed in water. Add a partner to that action and there are no limits to how
much excitement you can have. The easiest way to check this item off you list
is to find a nude beach or naturist facility. If you don’t have one of those
areas available to you, or if you want to live on the edge, you can always
sneak out to the beach at midnight under the cover of darkness. Depending on
where you live, there may be laws against public nudity, so please dip
accordingly.
Hook-up on the Water
We’re on a boat! How many lines can you think of that have
to deal with fun on the water? ‘The motion of the ocean’ or ‘don’t come
knockin’ if this boat is rockin.’ Getting intimate with you partner on water is
such a summer thing to do. Just being in a new location can enhance your level
of intensity. The breeze blowing your hair making you look sexy and windswept
is sure to fuel your partner’s fire. And if it happens to be rough seas, there
is no better excuse to fall into their arms and say that you should lie down
before you fall down.
Hook-up in Water*
I’m sure you were waiting for me to get to this one, but
it’s actually one I’m not sold on. Hooking up in water, whether it is in pool,
hot tub, lake, ocean, river, or wherever, always sounds better than it is. Water
washes away your body’s natural lubricant and can make activities like
penetrative sex very difficult and sometimes painful. If you want to foreplay
it up in the water, I’m all for that. Save the penetration activities for when
you’re on dry land. If you MUST hook up in water, please consider using
silicone lubricant. It is water resistant and can help you slip in to your
desired location. Again, please be aware of your local laws on public nudity.
Sweat it out
When was the last time you had really hot sweaty sex? And I
mean hot as in temperature. Cut the AC and create your own steamy love jungle.
Tap into your primal instinct and go at it like animals. Soon your bodies will
be glistening with sweat and some of it may drip onto your partner. So what?
Leave it and relish in the moment. Right at this moment you are having
passionate animal sex and that comes with sweat. Plus, research says that
certain types of sweat can act as subtle pheromones to your partner,
heightening their experience and making them want you more.
Summer is about getting outside and living in the moment.
Make some memories with your partner that you can’t do any other time of year.
Happy sexing!
By Megan Stubbs
Follow on Twitter @SexologistMegan
Follow on Twitter @SexologistMegan
